In China, social and network are big issue to care about in working and daily life. China as an collective society, people will consider relationship between people as an important scale. Having a good relationship with your coworker is more important than your working skill.
In Worlda we have seen teacher and school have misunderstanding sometimes, this is the moment to see the cultural difference. Most of the westerner will insist that "they are right" to defend themselves. But in Chinese culture, who is right or wrong is the second important issue, the more important issue is not to harm the relationship. Shouting and defending is consider "not friendly" in the Chinese people's mind. It will affect the working and cooperating in the future.
So, if we meet incident or misunderstanding, keep a friendly face. Sometimes even if you are the wrong one, if you show a nice attitude, people will forgive you very easily.
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