Written by Abraham @ Worlda
Dear ESL teachers,
Living in China could be a total different life
experience for you. For some people, it seems not so easy, especially when they
come to a new world, trying to figure out things all by themselves in their old
fashion; however for some other people, living in China could be an unique and
fascinating life experience, they could get many new friends, new life
experience, gain competence for the future career. What makes this difference
could be: how well you manage your social life in China.
We --- Worlda, as a leading international education
company in China with more than 13 years of experience in intercultural
communication, will try to help make it easier for you to have a better social
life in China. Now we would recommend 3 tips at this
round in the following:
♠ Have Chinese friends
In China, a lot of things could be different for
you. In internet there are instructions, tips for living in China, which could
improve your life here, however, a real Chinese friend should not be
substituted by abstract information.
Chinese friends could not only help you way much
sooner and easier to figure things out, solve problems, get useful information,
which you probably could not find by yourself, but also make your life happier,
as anywhere else when you have wonderful friends.
So, don’t stay alone or only make friends with your
countrymen in China, open yourself, make the first move (a lot of Chinese are
too shy for initial contact), then it could be not difficult to have Chinese
friends.
♠ Join groups or events
A lot of Chinese people would hang out in groups.
Social circle is important in China, it is not so usual to get to know someone
in 1 to 1 situation at the very beginning, as in Western, like in clubs. So
join some groups, make friends there, or some regular events, which could help
you enlarge your social circle, make more friends.
If you choose to live in big cities in China, it
could be much easier to join groups or events, there are so many options in big
cities. Check in internet, find some groups or events in your city, you don’t
have to be very picky before going there, go there first, make some friends
there, and let these friends become you social circle, let your social circle
grows by being introduced or invited to other people or events. Once you have
people in your social circle in abundance, consider with whom you would spend
more time.
If you live in small towns, learn Chinese language
and join local events, be friendly, always initiate something, take the first
step.
♠ Learn Chinese language
China is becoming more and more international, more
and more Chinese could speak and understand other languages (especially
English), as a foreigner, however, the urge to learn Chinese language could
never be faded away if you decide to live here.
First we have to admit, Chinese is not easy to
learn. But if you want to improve your life in China without being limited only
in big cities; if you want to know deep about China and Chinese people, their
mentality or lifestyle; if you want to enhance your competence in your future
career in China or even anywhere else, leaning Chinese is strongly recommended,
plus it makes fun if you make it so.
So, now how to learn Chinese?
There are tons of advice in internet, please check
it and try some tips, find the way that suits you; also take Chinese class,
especially at the beginning, getting systematic and regular support from a
language class could help you take off on this journey; learn Chinese by using
it in your everyday life, as you were in your homeland.
So we’ve finished the suggestion part, wish you a
great time in China. More tips and suggestions for a better living in China
will follow soon, please stay tuned!
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you for reading our blog!
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